By: Joel Hawes, Director of Lower School at Berwick Academy
In the early elementary years and beyond, Social-Emotional Learning (SEL) promotes individual growth, nurtures compassionate citizens, and develops a trusting, caring classroom community where students are comfortable taking appropriate risks in their thinking and in their actions. Supporting SEL in the classroom setting and at home is an integral part of childhood development, and has been even more important since the pandemic so deeply impacted children and schools throughout the world.
SEL Competencies
When we think about the SEL competencies we strive to ensure students will acquire through a strong school-family partnership, we look to a variety of research-based tools including the
Responsive Classroom model. RC consists of a set of classroom management and teaching strategies based on essential overarching principles, and the belief that SEL skills are just as important as academic skills. Responsive Classroom focuses on building cooperation, assertiveness, responsibility, empathy, and self control (responsiveclassroom.org), and is a
CASEL designated SEL program.
5 Ways to Support SEL at Home
While these competencies are fostered in the classroom through intentional academic and non-academic activities, our Wellness program, and relationship-building, below are ideas for teaching SEL at home:
Yoga and mindfulness: Taking time for yoga and mindfulness helps young children develop core strength and encourages them to understand how and when they need time for self-reflection. These are important skills for children to obtain as they grow, and starting at a young age can encourage them to seek those moments of reflection more naturally. At Berwick, we employ
Yoga 4 Classrooms routinely in pre-K through Grade 4.
Books with a focus on justice, equity, diversity, and inclusion: Reading and discussing age-appropriate books with children around the themes of justice, equity, diversity, and inclusion builds empathy and understanding of others. Varying titles and themes in a child’s library experience and having discussions encourages a growth mindset and promotes positive conversations. Check out
this resource for some initial book ideas. If you’re interested in learning more about our school’s work around these topics, please connect with us.
Outdoor play and exploration: Getting outdoors - whether it be hiking, climbing, or using natural tools and items for ‘heavy’ lifting and free play - encourages physical coordination, creative thinking, and collaboration. Outdoor activities where children can push themselves physically builds confidence, self-awareness of their movement, and promotes a healthy lifestyle. Our Lower School teachers have done extensive professional development work with outdoor-ed consultant
Anne Stires to learn more about nature’s connection to SEL.
Family game nights: Whether it’s a board game or kicking around a soccer ball, playing games with children helps them to understand rules, structure, how to focus, and to be a good teammate and opponent. In a safe and structured environment, families can problem-solve together, overcome challenges, and learn to cope and be respectful during moments that can be emotionally-charged.
Create and/or discuss art: Creating art or discussing the artwork of children and others encourages conversation about emotions. It nurtures a child’s ability to express feelings and ask questions in positive, meaningful ways. Offering a variety of art materials for freedom of choice is a great way to get children engaged. Our Lower School art teacher and counselor have utilized the colors and feelings represented in the
Zones of Regulation SEL framework in students’ art projects to build understanding around emotions.
Social-emotional learning is an essential part of childhood - and even adolescent, teen, and young adult - development. Harnessing similar skills, techniques, and language at home helps to connect the SEL development that occurs for elementary-aged students as a fundamental part of their early school experience.
5 Ways to Support SEL at Home with Kindergarten-aged Children
In Kindergarten, the early elementary years, and beyond, Social-Emotional Learning (SEL) promotes individual growth, nurtures compassionate citizens, and develops a trusting, caring classroom community where students are comfortable taking appropriate risks in their thinking and in their actions. Supporting SEL in the classroom setting and at home is an integral part of childhood development, and has been even more important since the pandemic so deeply impacted children and schools throughout the world.
SEL Competencies
When we think about the SEL competencies we strive to ensure students will acquire through a strong school-family partnership, we look to a variety of research-based tools including the
Responsive Classroom model. RC consists of a set of classroom management and teaching strategies based on essential overarching principles, and the belief that SEL skills are just as important as academic skills. Responsive Classroom focuses on building cooperation, assertiveness, responsibility, empathy, and self control (responsiveclassroom.org), and is a
CASEL designated SEL program.
5 Ways to Support SEL at Home
While these competencies are fostered in the classroom through intentional academic and non-academic activities, our Wellness program, and relationship-building, below are ideas for teaching SEL at home:
Yoga and mindfulness: Taking time for yoga and mindfulness helps young children develop core strength and encourages them to understand how and when they need time for self-reflection. These are important skills for children to obtain as they grow, and starting at a young age can encourage them to seek those moments of reflection more naturally. At Berwick, we employ
Yoga 4 Classrooms routinely in pre-K through Grade 4.
Books with a focus on justice, equity, diversity, and inclusion: Reading and discussing age-appropriate books with children around the themes of justice, equity, diversity, and inclusion builds empathy and understanding of others. Varying titles and themes in a child’s library experience and having discussions encourages a growth mindset and promotes positive conversations. Check out
this resource for some initial book ideas. If you’re interested in learning more about our school’s work around these topics, please connect with us.
Outdoor play and exploration: Getting outdoors - whether it be hiking, climbing, or using natural tools and items for ‘heavy’ lifting and free play - encourages physical coordination, creative thinking, and collaboration. Outdoor activities where children can push themselves physically builds confidence, self-awareness of their movement, and promotes a healthy lifestyle. This spring, our Lower School teachers worked with
Anne Stires to learn more about nature’s connection to SEL.
Family game nights: Whether it’s a board game or kicking around a soccer ball, playing games with children helps them to understand rules, structure, how to focus, and to be a good teammate and opponent. In a safe and structured environment, families can problem-solve together, overcome challenges, and learn to cope and be respectful during moments that can be emotionally-charged.
Create and/or discuss art: Creating art or discussing the artwork of children and others encourages conversation about emotions. It nurtures a child’s ability to express feelings and ask questions in positive, meaningful ways. Offering a variety of art materials for freedom of choice is a great way to get children engaged. Our Lower School art teacher and counselor have utilized the colors and feelings represented in the
Zones of Regulation SEL framework in students’ art projects to build understanding around emotions.
Social-emotional learning is an essential part of childhood - and even adolescent, teen, and young adult - development. Harnessing similar skills, techniques, and language at home helps to connect the SEL development that occurs for Kindergarten and elementary-aged students as a fundamental part of their early school experience.